Study Smart:First Aid

Starting a New School

The Problem...

Dear Study Smart: Last year I started a new school. I was shy at first and I really did not want to go. So...I threw fits and acted really immature. I did not like anyone because I wanted to go to my old school. But soon I realized that no one liked me because I was acting like a brat. So I told every one I was sorry and now I have a lot of new friends! -- Andi C, Michigan

A Solution

Dear Andi: Thanks for sharing your experiences. Going to a new school is really hard. But here's some survival tips that might make it easier next time.

• See if you can check out the school before it opens. If they have an orientation, go to it.
  
  
• Find out where everything is. Like your classes and the bathrooms.
  
  
• That way you won't have to be asking everyone and feel silly.
  
  
• Break the ice. Be the first to introduce yourself.
  
  
• Try to remember the other kids names.
  
  
• Start conversations. Ask the kids about themselves. What they like.
  
  
• Smile.
  
  
• Don't be in a rush to make friends. Get to know everyone first.
  
  
• Don't forget why you're there. To learn.
  
  
• Stay on top of your schoolwork and homework. Don't let the blues overtake you.
  
  
• Get involved. Join some clubs or activities.
  
  
• Don't forget your old friends. Write them. Stay in touch.
  
  

Thanks to Andi C, and all the girls who wrote these answers, to Jennie, 12 for the question, and to Gina for editing this article.