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| The other day one of my best friends told me a rumor that my other really close friend had started last year. She had only told about three people, but it was something that's really awful and not true. I'm really upset about it and can’t stop thinking about it. Plus the friend who started the rumor still acts like my friend and like nothing is wrong. I don't know what to do! Also I promised the friend who told that I wouldn't say anything because she swore she wouldn't, but she just cracked. I'm not into all the girl drama or whatever, I don't like talking behind other people's backs or starting fights. Please help! – Haley, 15, New York |
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| I liked this guy a lot and we started to date. Everything was going so well until I figured out he wanted to break up with me. I was heartbroken, but I didn't know if it was true, but I broke up with him anyway. About three days later, he started to date my best friend! I always give her hints that it's bothering me but all she says is "I like him so much" or "I can't believe you would break up with him!" I’m so frustrated with her - you don't do that to your best friend! She always causes drama and gets mad at me all the time. Everything is about her and I hate that. Lately I feel like I don't know if I want to be her friend and the last time we got in a fight she said "Your just jealous because I have your boyfriend!" Like we are friends now but I can't believe she said that ! She just pretends she didn't. And she tells everybody everything so they think she’s the good person. I never have been so annoyed with her but I feel guilty to stop being her friend! I got so frustrated with her going on about him that I lifted my hand and smacked her in the forehead but I told her somebody hit my arm. I don’t feel like it's normal to feel like this but still want to be best friends. She also flirts with everybody and it gets on my nerves. She is so self conceited and people say he doesn't even like her. Anytime she talks about him I just want to scream "He doesn't even like you he is doing that to get me jealous!" But I don't know what to do. I just can't believe she did this. I still love her to death, but it don't think I can do this anymore, but I want to be her friend, I am even feeling guilty about writing all his down about her! Somebody please help! – Scarlet, 13, USA |
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| My best friend recently got a boyfriend and I am really happy for her. The bad thing is, she hangs out with him 24/7. When she comes over, she texts him and never really talks to me. We go to the movies and she sits three seats away from me with him, and eats lunch with him. I'm extremely happy for her, but I would like to have some time with her, too. Please help me, before she shuts me out! – Carolina, 14, California |
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How can I stick up for myself when my best friend gets mad at me for no reason? How can I make her not mad at me? Sometimes I lose my confidence when I’m with her. Even my parents think that she's "controlling" me. She always gets mad at me for no reason. Two weeks ago I had to pick her up for dance. She wanted to spend the night, but I said I was "too scared" to ask my parents as an excuse for her not to spend the night, but she got mad at me. She said that I ruined her life, & that she liked my other friends better than me. That night I fell asleep crying. My parents know about this, but they always just say, stand up for myself. I don't know how to stand up for myself though. Three weeks ago she said she wished that I got into a car crash. Afterwards she said just kidding, but I was still hurt. Why does she always get mad at me for no reason? Even if I stop hanging out with her, my other friends will turn against me. They would probably go to her side. She says that I never care about her, but obviously I do when I get hurt when she gets mad at me, doesn't talk to me, etc. I really need help and I don't know what to do. My parents asked me if I wanted them to talk to my friend's mom, but I don't want that. What should I do? I’m helpless & desperate. My confidence in my self is slowly going down. Last week I didn't even go to Jazz because of her. I told my dad that I didn't want to go to Jazz today. So I lied to her and said that "my dad had work." Thanks for your time in reading this. She's my biggest fear. – Mazel, 12, California |
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