How old is your sis, Macy? She is probably going through a phase. Everyone does. And how can you blame her with the fascination of all these new electronic gadgets. But a good way to hang out is to do something both of you like. Suggest watching a movie together while chatting, play games like Text Find where you text her all the clues where the item you hid is. And then suggest other things like a game of softball or a round of Uno. If she still tries to slam the door in your face, email or text her that you want to watch a movie with her, or do something else. If all else fails pick a time when your parents aren't busy and discuss this with them. – Mary, 12, New York

I’m 14 and my sister is five years older than me .We always used to play together. But she got older and started going out and meeting boys. I felt I was left without my best friend and sister. I told her and she said she was too old. But I found hobbies and made new friends. I still ask her to go out shopping or watch a film most weekends. I realised she wasn’t leaving me. – Lydia, 14, Great Britain

Macy, the biggest problem with big sisters is that they grow up faster than you do. When they are dating boys and worrying about high school and prom and texting their new boyfriends, you’re still worrying about the things a t’ween worries about. It’s a big difference, and one that only time will fix. So until you catch up, you’re going to have to find some new friends, I’m afraid. Join clubs and things at school – get involved in a sport or something active. Your sister will still be there later, but she’ll be all grown up and ready to talk to you like a civilized human person again. It just takes a little time, girlfriend. Give her some time, and make your own fun. – Casey, 17, Oklahoma