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They All Hate Him! I’ve liked this guy since 3rd grade and he can be mean sometimes! I don't blame him for that cause I am too. But he also has a soft side, like the time he gave me a birthday card on the last day of school. But I'm afraid my friends are going to hate me cause they hated him and I pretended to hate him too. I'm also afraid of the fact that he might be too creeped out and will hate me and tell his friends. What should I do? – Tina, 11, Washington Tina, I had the same problem as you. I used to like this guy from when I was in 1st grade until fifth. We were friends, but not that close. One day in fourth grade I told him that I liked him. He walked away and we didn't speak for about six months. My friends and I really hated him for not liking me and he hated us too. But at the end of eighth grade he told me he liked me and that he wanted to date me. I was happy, I said yes, forgetting everything that we had been though. But the moral of my story is, that sometimes you can't do anything about the situation at the present moment. Sometimes you have to wait and see what happens. – Stacey, 14, New York Hey Tina! The weird part is, I have been through EXACTLY the same thing! When I read what you wrote, I thought I was hallucinating! Look, if you really like the guy, then tell him. The worst that can happen is he'll say he doesn’t like you, which leaves you free to see MANY other guys. But it turned out, that in my case, the guy liked me, and he was too shy to say so. I introduced him to my friends, and showed them how different he was from what they thought he was. They started liking him. I mean OBVIOUSLY there must be SOMETHING that this guy has to make you like him in the first place. So go for it ASAP, or you'll lose out on your chance. – Abby, 13, India Don’t waste your time wondering what if. You should go for it. If they are really your friends then they will support you. And if he’s worth it, then go for it. But don’t make it easy for him, otherwise he will take you for granted. Start with your friends first. Then flirt with him, be his friend, and eventually you will have a loving and committed relationship. – Megan, 15, Texas
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