How Can I Work It Out Between My Boyfriend and My Girlfriends?

Um, I like this boy and he likes me a lot. We always talk on the phone. We love to hang out together. The problem is we can't really talk to each other's face. We joke and stuff but not ever really talk. We talk all the time on the phone but never in person. And also, my best friends think I like him more than them. They say I hang out with him too much. They say they're losing me. I love them dearly and I'm trying to spend more time with them but it's so exhausting! Help, please! - Christa, 14, North Dakota

"Hey, Christa!'" Don't you wish boys weren't so confusing? Yeah, me too! But girlfriends usually aren't as bad. And when your friends say you're spending too much time with someone, chances are... they're telling the truth! Remember, friends stick with you better than any guy- appreciate them. You don't want to be away from them for a long time, only to return and find out that you are a "fifth wheel"- someone who doesn't know what's going on. Invest time in your friends!

Secondly, it sounds like you and this guy have communication down pat, but you MUST speak face to face if you want more than just a friendship. However, right now, you're fourteen - you've got your whole life ahead of you! Instead of worrying about whether you and your guy friend are going to date, just enjoy being his friend. If you relax, maybe he'll open up to you and do group activities. Who knows? Maybe your friends will like him just as much as you do! Never forget you're complete within yourself. Have a great day!