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| My boyfriend and I had a big fight last week and broke up. He told me that he broke up with me because of family issues. Later that day we got back together, but then I found out why he really broke up with me. It was because another girl liked him and he didn’t know whom to choose. We are still together but I have this really big feeling that he could have feelings for her. I told him my feelings about it and he says he doesn’t. I just don’t believe him. I don’t know what to do! Should I break up or just keep it to myself? – Brooke, 14, USA |
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| OK, here's the deal. I like this guy and I think he is kind of into me. Girl's intuition maybe. We are always talking and he stares at me sometimes. He makes me laugh and I do the same for him, but there are some issues. One, in one of my classes I have with him he hangs out with this guy. For some reason whenever he is with this boy he pretends not to see me or will say rude things. I want to forgive him but if this does become something more, I am not willing to go out with both sides of him. The second part is that I am too conservative to ever admit to him that I like him. I don't think he will tell me he likes me. How do I help us move on from this block? – Jessica, 13, Pennsylvania |
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| I’m in 7th grade. In my reading class I am the ONLY GIRL except for the teacher, so I’m in a class with 10 BOYS. Most of them treat me nice, but there are two who pick on me for every single thing I do. The way I talk, the way I read, that I’m shy and quiet in school but I’m a cheerleader, that I get good grades, that I do my homework, that I don’t get in trouble and anything else they can think of. It bothers me so much I dread going to that class. Since they laugh when I talk because they "claim" I sound British (which I don't), I don't even answer questions which I LOVE to do. When I tell my mom she says its just because they like me. But they don’t! They just enjoy teasing me and it really hurts me. What do I do? - Niffer, 12, West Virginia |
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| I’ve been going out with this guy that's a grade lower than me but, he's older than me and he keeps lying to me about liking his ex. (Who is one of my best friends). There's another guy that I like though. I've liked him forever and he said he likes me mostly as a friend but, a little bit more than that. I've asked all my friends about what to do but nothing seems to help. So, maybe one of you girls out there can help me. – Ashley, 14, Colorado |
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This real nice, cute, adorable, all around down to earth guy knows I like him through my friend AND by me telling him I liked him. So the thing is that same friend says he likes me too! So now everything’s great right? But why won’t he ask me out? It’s been a week since the spilling of the beans but nothing. Is he scared? Embarrassed? What's wrong? Maybe it’s too soon? – Sabrina, 15, USA |
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| I've been dating this guy at school on and off for about two years now. We both like each other a lot. But he keeps lying to me! Then we break up. But then, something about him makes me really want him back, so I say yes when he asks me out again. He uses this to his own advantage. I hate not being able to say no! What should I do? I really like this guy! Though I also get teased a lot for dating him. – Shaelyn, 12, Canada |
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| There’s this boy in the other 6th grade class. Let's call him Bob. I have had a crush on "Bob" ever since 5th grade. I later gathered up the courage to tell him this year (6th grade). It was over the phone. I told him then quickly hung up. He called back and said he liked my too, which I thought was a bit fishy but what ever. I told my best friend. She accidentally let it slip, so now almost everybody knows. I really don't care about that though. He got me a Valentines gift. The problem is that now I realize I don't like him anymore. I like this new kid who came a few weeks ago. I have not admitted it yet, but he has. In aftercare, after one of my guy friends told almost every one at the table about me and Bob, the new kid was asked who he liked. He pointed to me and some other girl at a different table. I want to tell him I like him too, but he’s really cocky and he thinks me and Bob are going out (which we are not)! So basically I want to break up a relationship that never was official and be really good friends with he new kid. Am I evil for this? I really need help! – Meme, 12, USA |
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| I've liked this guy for three years and we started going out five months ago. I really like him and he's nice and says that he loves me. But one of my best friends and him are really close, and they tell each other everything, and he rarely tells me anything. I'm a bit jealous and I don't what to do. She's my best friend and I'm just scared that he is going to start liking her and dump me. I always feel so in the dark. I really need some help. – Ally, 12, Canada |
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I have a boyfriend and he’s great and everything. He's really funny and nice and we can joke a lot. But the only thing is that he flirts with other girls a ton. He sits next to the girl, Lili, in reading/Language Arts and all he does is talk to her and make her laugh and tell her she’s so pretty and nice. And Lili is really pretty and nice and she’s a cheerleader and he's on the basketball team. She’s everything I wanna be and I just feel like I can't compare to her because she’s so much more then me. I am constantly worried that he is going to break up with me for her and every time I ask he just says "Wow" and walks away or will stop responding to my texts. How do I deal with this? – Alicia, 13, Illinois |
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